The honeymoon is over. The person who was such a giver, now has become such a taker, and you question if you’ve made the right decision to be with this person at all. You know your partner is a taker and not a giver if you see these signs:
It’s always their agenda
You’re always going to their movie, their restaurant, having their friends join. You never seem to have a say in what you do or who you spend time with.
You’re the listener, they’re the talker
There’s never a real conversation. They expect you to listen to their problems, concerns, and triumphs, but when you start talking, there’s no real effort on their end to find out what’s going on with you.
They back out of plans at the last minute
You’ve been disappointed a lot because they say they’ll do things and then don’t show up and have a lame excuse.
They want all of your attention
They get jealous whenever you go out with friends or go on vacation without them.
They’re out of touch with your needs
They are unaware of unspoken cues. They don’t realize how lonely and unsatisfied you really feel.
