All friendships start from a mutual exchange. But when it comes to fake friends, they take a lot more than they give. Don’t waste your time with a friend who uses you to their benefit without getting anything in return. Know the signs … Only talks about themselves More often…
Carol Porges
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Hi everyone! My name is Carol and I’m currently studying English and Women’s & Gender Studies at Boston College. I look forward to writing and researching articles on topics of interest.
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The age-old saying that “nothing worth fighting for ever comes easy” is never truer than when it comes to relationships. When we are in a long-term relationship, it is common to become complacent on both sides. But forgetting the little things builds up over time, and eventually your relationship becomes…
Every time we start dating someone new, we have the insecurity that they might not be with us for the right reasons. Hopefully, he’s a good guy and that insecurity goes away pretty quickly. But sometimes, it turns out that he’s just using us. He won't introduce you to…
Couples who argue a lot often get a bad rap. But why is that? We know that couples who disagree about everything probably aren’t that compatible, however, couples who don’t fight at all don’t exist. Let’s explore why fighting with your partner might sometimes be a good thing. You don’t…
There’s nothing worse than falling into a pattern of going after people who are not good for us. It’s painful, frustrating, and unkind to us. But it’s also totally normal. Here are six reasons why we fall for the wrong guy. He’s attractive Sure, it’s what’s on the inside that…
It’s not you; it’s me—the most clichéd breakup line of all time. There is a reason people hate being on the receiving end of this phrase so much; it’s because a breakup takes two people. But in some cases, it really is more about us than it is about you.…
When communication is breaking down, you’re not just going offline with someone for a period of time—you’re not being heard. Oftentimes, communication breaks down because you feel like you’re not able to express yourself the way you want to. When you can’t get your point across, you become discouraged from…
There are some guys who just aren’t worth it. And when you are at the point in your life/relationship when marriage is on the table … avoid guys that display these five signs at all costs: He makes objectifying comments Women sometimes justify rude or ignorant behavior from their boyfriends…
Drifting apart in a relationship is totally natural. It would be impossible to maintain all of the connections that we make throughout our lives on an immediate level. But there is a difference between going our separate ways because of natural causes that can’t/shouldn’t be remedied and losing touch with…
Being physically attracted to a partner is important. But there are some qualities in a person that mean so much more. Below are 10 of my favorites … Genuinely listening to my interests There is nothing sexier than feeling supported by you in our pursuits. Give us a listening ear…
DISCLAIMER: There are definitely cases in which all of these statements could be sincere. But if you are at all skeptical about your partner or friend’s intentions, don’t be misled. Below, find five lies from a guy and five lies from a friend that you should not believe. 5 Lies…
He’s just not that into you—that’s a pretty harsh statement. And guys can come up with a million and one excuses to get around saying it. Unfortunately, the root of all of the reasons he doesn’t prioritize you is that he just doesn’t want to be with you. Don’t waste…
Making a lifelong commitment to someone is a huge decision. But thankfully, there are some easy-to-spot warning signs if you’re headed down that road with someone who doesn’t deserve you. If your future spouse does any of these seven things, it might be a good idea to reconsider … Takes…
Communication is key. If it seems like there’s a cloud looming over your relationship, maybe the problem is right in front of you…but you just haven’t been listening. Here’s what she wants you to know… She wants more time with you We are all busy. And for a lot of…
According to Elaine Aron, PhD, a psychologist at Stony Brook University in New York, 20% of the population are genetically predisposed to be more aware and empathic. This group of highly sensitive people, or “empaths,” sometimes gets a bad rap. They are more vulnerable to criticism, and are often underestimated.…
Listen up guys. While every woman has her specific deal-breakers when it comes to men’s habits and tendencies, there are some things that are just unacceptable. If you want to have a shot, always avoid doing these six things … Acting like you don’t care about anything The hipster phase…
In the beginning of a relationship, it is always hard to differentiate between love and infatuation. Your new partner is constantly on your mind, but are you interested in them for who they are or you are just enamored with whom you think they could be? When your relationship is…
I once heard a metaphor that your soul is like a big pot of soup. When different people and opportunities come into your life, you dole out the amount of soup each thing merits—maybe a bowl of soup for your partner, a cup of soup for your job, and etc.…
As the youngest of six kids, I’m always comparing my experiences to those of my older siblings. I often find that my interests, habits and relationships differ from theirs because of my “youngest child” status. Read on to see if you identify with some of the common personality traits of…
Sometimes we meet a guy who checks all of our boxes—he’s handsome, he has a good job and he possesses that distinct extra quality (whatever it may be for you) that makes him seem like the perfect mate. When this happens, it becomes easy to fall fast and hard. We…
No one likes to be around people who are spacey, narcissistic or downright delusional. Being aware of how you present yourself makes you more relatable, and more date-able. But truly poised women are not wholly preoccupied with what others think of them; they are much more focused on how they…
Some relationships are for the long haul; others don’t last forever. Even if the person you’re dating isn’t your soulmate, he might be providing exactly what you need at this point in your life. Healthy relationships help us learn how to be better partners and individuals. Here are eight signs…
