At the end of the day what really matters is that your loved ones are safe, you've done your best, & that you're thankful for what you have.
Stop explaining yourself and telling people everything. You owe no one any explanation of what you do. Your life is yours, not theirs.
Don't underestimate me. I know more than I say, think more than I speak, and notice more than you realize.
Some people are loyal to their need of you. Once their needs change, so does their loyalty.
Never judge people by their past. People learn. People change. People move on.
